Relationships. Energy. What comes to mind when you see and hear these words. Dynamics. I think of the fight for energy. People are constantly running, rushing and fighting for something. What a better way to win energy - to feel better about oneself, but to open a channel of energy with someone - and then leave them discarded. You take something from them, and leave. For women, we think that men only want our bodies. We couldn't have been more wrong. Men want so much more. They want connection. They want understanding. They want somebody loving and kind, empathic and responsive. Thats whose body they want. They take that body. And then they leave. Women open up so much more during intercourse than men. I love how Heather Graham's character in The Guru says, "My pussy is the door to my soul". This fits the idea. And men want your soul. But for them - because they are so unaware of emotions, feelings, souls, subtle bodies and energy - they don't know what they do when they take your body. They dont understand the flow or the channels of emotional, mental and psychic energy. But they did form a channel with the women. And left - as they got what they wanted. Its normal. Women do that too. By getting attention from the men. Getting their praise. And then leaving them trying to fight for their energy - their bodies. In most cases, neither realizes that this is all about the energy fight. Who will get the other's energy first, who will be smarter and logical enough to leave that other person first.